Organized crime aside, beating a prospect over the head is not
a reasonable sales tactic. Years ago I was taught that in order to make a withdrawal, I
first had to make a deposit; maybe many deposits -- depending on my immediate request.
This theory should apply to our sales and
marketing strategies. When we make a sales call we want something -- and we want it even
before the person says 'hello'. Script reading might have worked years ago but marketing
today requires a deposit of trust-building strategies before you ask for their money.
Further, scripts come off in a
business-language that seems to trigger the person you have on the phone with a big
'caution' sign. Their guard is up and their wallet is out of reach. Part of the problem is
the fact that we lose something in a phone conversation: eye contact, body language, and
facial expression. Our words are offered with minimal cues.
Trust begins with you. Build a dialogue.
Let go of the idea that a sale can only happen if you control the conversation. Put your
offer on hold and engage in conversation without assuming anything. I like the first
part of a phone call to be largely my prospect's voice, not mine. A few pointed
questions can bring this about and humor will disarm a skeptic every time.
George Burns, the famous comedian once
said, "The most important thing in life is sincerity - if you can fake that, you've
got it made". It seems today, that most businesses are missing the joke.
The words "sales" and
"trust" are not generally used in the same text. With good reason online buyers
are skeptical, even cynical about being 'taken'. Buyers don't trust sellers because they
fear sellers have only their own interests at heart. Trust-based selling sounds like an
oxymoron and they have good reason to be suspicious.
Today, every business with a ticket price
over $1000 needs to become a matchmaker between their product and the needs of their
buyer. Their trust in your words will confirm your knowledge, skill or competency. This
instills confidence and the absence of suspicion.
So, who are you... and can I trust you?
These two questions underscore all business transactions; particularly in conducting
business on the Internet where face-to-face interactions of the 'real world' are absent.
People do business with people. Help your
prospects get to know and trust you by letting your passion and personality come across in
your conversation, as well as your professionalism. Communication isn't the only
ingredient for developing trust, but it is a critical one.
Exuding trust can be learned, and when
consistently a part of your communication, will measurably increase your influence in all
your sales as well as other aspects of your life.
Alvin Toffler, Author of "The Third
Wave" said... "The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who
cannot read and write but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
© 2005 Esther Smith
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